Rejection

How do u take rejection? There are many forms of rejection whereas all of it leads to unhappiness. It's easy to be rejected and get hurt. However, how many people can click "Next" when rejection happens? Not many I think. I started to read the book about rejection. There is no point harping on the same objects or issues when rejection occur. I used to be a serious person towards rejection. I take it heavily on my shoulder, but now, due to the book, I started to realise why would I want to harm myself with rejection. It is in our daily life. If you dislike a person, thus u will start to apply self-defence mechanism, and from then on, you will talk badly about the person no matter what he/she does. This is human nature. You will feel anger yourselves and thus, who will fall sick? You or him/her? Of course the answer is you.

I'd never been in relationship, but I do understand how life imitates chess. I'd chased gals before in my life but now, is it important. The most important in life is learning how to get up again after each fall. The present and the future awaits us there. Break up issues is just a normal learning towards preparing everyone to becareful about the future partnership. There is no right or wrong in love or who sacrifice a lot for one another. There is no measurement for that as long as the spices are there.

For those couples, relationship gets dull or bored when they reach 3rd years or 2nd years. Why is it happen to be like that? As they grow older, spending time together, doing the same thing over and over again, will lead to boredom. Girls and guys are 2 different species. Guys will feel bored doing the same thing over and over again, whilst girls will feel sweet about what the other do. Then the worse would be started to compare the other half with other people. Comparison would lead to separation too. It's just a matter of time, like a time bomb.

To be continued..........