There are many forms of Love. What is really love? Love needs sacrifices and not materials. Materials is just a want and not a need. When you love someone, no matter what he/she does, it is still sweet. Love by looking at materials will not be as happy as usual because one shall not evaluate the person's inner. I read half way about the book "One Minute for Yourself". It's true that one ought to take care of himself before taking care of thee and we.
Sometimes, rejection happens and the relationship turns sour, but for me, I am a person with big heart that shall forget everything and won't keep it in mind. Just click "next". For those past, I shall just treat them normal and help when needed. Nothing more. What is past is just a past. Just bless them with future happiness. I learnt to take care of myself better starting few days ago and I realized that I can be happy too if I close my eyes and asked myself "Do I take care of myself today?". Why one ought to show an unhappy face around to other people if one is really unhappy? Thus, this person is torturing himself/herself. Now, the virtue of happiness is laugh and smile, and everything shall be clear. If one just ignores me, it doesn't matter to me because he/she is torturing himself/herself.
In order to give myself more time, I tried to gain extra 1 hour everyday for myself. I shall try to wake up earlier to do what I should do for myself. There are a few things to settle tommorrow. One shall need to look at the broader picture and learn from the past.
Jimmy Lai asked me something which I clearly remembered till now. He asked "Do you know how to cook? Do you know how to do house chores?" Of course I do know how to cook and do house chores. Then he said, "good, next time, must treat your wife good and do them together. Never be an egoistic man that just command around." The conversation was something to be like that. It's true that many couples married nowadays, they face such problem where there will be no conversation among them after many years due to working environment. Thus, less and less conversation between them. Therefore, if the husband just sit around and doesn't help out, the wife will feel helpless because she has to handle them everyday.
When in a relationship, the starting will just be a hot and happy moment, but the turn around is different when it enters different stages. That would be just like in the graph above. Many people fail to understand that when times goes on, the relationship turns into a stale mate position. Less and less conversation and commitments to maintain the sparks. A relationship needs some spices and surprises to make it grows and become stronger. Never ever compare other people's lovers for everyone is different with their own strengths and weaknesses. No one is perfect after all. Thus, I promised myself not to be like the graph above. If you love someone, gives everything. Even if it fails, it's a destiny. What is yours will be yours, what isn't will not be.
There will always be a saying, never judge a book from its cover. One can use the flirting techniques to make a girl happy. Jokes, romantic environment moments and materials never fail to impress a girl. There will always be a player out there, just a matter of luck if some really meet up with that. A player will always change a new lover when he is bored with the old ones. Just like Sun Tzi Art of War. One needs to be responsible of his/her own actions.
I for now, just focus on myself. Shall I play in the Selangor Open? If I do, then I shall need to practice harder. The sprit "Never Give Up"!!! Failures is just a step away from success in the future. My love for Chess is borderless.
Sometimes, rejection happens and the relationship turns sour, but for me, I am a person with big heart that shall forget everything and won't keep it in mind. Just click "next". For those past, I shall just treat them normal and help when needed. Nothing more. What is past is just a past. Just bless them with future happiness. I learnt to take care of myself better starting few days ago and I realized that I can be happy too if I close my eyes and asked myself "Do I take care of myself today?". Why one ought to show an unhappy face around to other people if one is really unhappy? Thus, this person is torturing himself/herself. Now, the virtue of happiness is laugh and smile, and everything shall be clear. If one just ignores me, it doesn't matter to me because he/she is torturing himself/herself.
In order to give myself more time, I tried to gain extra 1 hour everyday for myself. I shall try to wake up earlier to do what I should do for myself. There are a few things to settle tommorrow. One shall need to look at the broader picture and learn from the past.
Jimmy Lai asked me something which I clearly remembered till now. He asked "Do you know how to cook? Do you know how to do house chores?" Of course I do know how to cook and do house chores. Then he said, "good, next time, must treat your wife good and do them together. Never be an egoistic man that just command around." The conversation was something to be like that. It's true that many couples married nowadays, they face such problem where there will be no conversation among them after many years due to working environment. Thus, less and less conversation between them. Therefore, if the husband just sit around and doesn't help out, the wife will feel helpless because she has to handle them everyday.
When in a relationship, the starting will just be a hot and happy moment, but the turn around is different when it enters different stages. That would be just like in the graph above. Many people fail to understand that when times goes on, the relationship turns into a stale mate position. Less and less conversation and commitments to maintain the sparks. A relationship needs some spices and surprises to make it grows and become stronger. Never ever compare other people's lovers for everyone is different with their own strengths and weaknesses. No one is perfect after all. Thus, I promised myself not to be like the graph above. If you love someone, gives everything. Even if it fails, it's a destiny. What is yours will be yours, what isn't will not be.
There will always be a saying, never judge a book from its cover. One can use the flirting techniques to make a girl happy. Jokes, romantic environment moments and materials never fail to impress a girl. There will always be a player out there, just a matter of luck if some really meet up with that. A player will always change a new lover when he is bored with the old ones. Just like Sun Tzi Art of War. One needs to be responsible of his/her own actions.
I for now, just focus on myself. Shall I play in the Selangor Open? If I do, then I shall need to practice harder. The sprit "Never Give Up"!!! Failures is just a step away from success in the future. My love for Chess is borderless.
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