2010

It has been awhile since I have stop writing. Finally, I had achieved my FIDE rating and got a new job. Life has been so good so far. I constantly read about relationship stuff at Lowyat.net's Cupid Corner. Well, I still remember that someone there told me this: "Don't stand near the tree too much, step backward and you shall see the whole tree, whether is it worth to sacrifice, if the answer is no, then thou shall look around and know that you are bless with someone worth in the forest...." Love is not a one sided relationship as it takes 2 to tango. I came across a topic in the forum. It's amazing how this gal can hang on to such guy. Let's call it, A is the gal, B is the guy.

A and B are colleagues in an office, and they started the relationship there too. A is just a simple girl wanting some security and love, while B seems to be on the offensive and controlling everything. B dislikes A talking to guys, even to colleagues or worse still MSN. They quarrel quite often coz of some even petty things. A is so weak that she got scolded too even during vacation to somewhere. Many forumers would ask this gal to break up with the guy. A wanted too but will always patch back with B.

In this scenario, constant quarrel is a bad sign to relationship. The B's ego and ungentle man side towards his own gf should be publicly condemn. Even the gal too, is living in the state of denial where she hope there is still a hope in the relationship or probably scared that age is catching up to her. If only someone would tell her the above statement, life would be easier. It takes 2 to tango.

Maybe gonna read more and see other stories as well.